DWQA Questions › Category: Problems in SocietyFilter:AllOpenResolvedClosedUnansweredSort byViewsAnswersVotesIn New York City, it has been observed that dating apps have enabled many women to establish different kinds of categories for men interested in them. A study reported in the New York Post revealed that 33% of women confessed to going on dates just to get “free food.” They even have a term for it, namely, a “foodie call.” Some women have a full address book of men they can call not only for free food but free home repairs, car repairs, shopping trips, travel, you name it. The women have zero intention of ever getting romantically involved with any of these men. All of these men are in the dreaded “friend zone.” What is Creator’s perspective?ClosedNicola asked 2 years ago • Problems in Society195 views0 answers0 votesSixty percent of college graduates today are women. Women are increasingly filling managerial roles and displacing men in numerous professional occupations such as law and medicine. Men, by and large, have no issues “dating down” and entering relationships with women who earn much less than they do, and who are even unemployed altogether. Whereas, the opposite is almost never true for successful women. Overwhelmingly, they hold out and say yes only to men who make as much or preferably more than they do, who are taller than they are (or at least not shorter), and more “successful and worldly,” however they might personally define that. The result is that more and more women are chasing fewer and fewer “qualified” men. They are literally pricing themselves out of the dating market. What is Creator’s perspective?ClosedNicola asked 2 years ago • Problems in Society195 views0 answers0 votesThe dating scene is especially problematic, and even deeply traumatic, for single mothers of all ages. With the divorce rate above 50%, along with the huge number of births happening out of wedlock, it’s reaching the point where more children are being raised by single mothers than are being raised by married cohabiting biological parents. Overwhelmingly, most single men, and more often than that, the more desirable single men, want nothing to do with a single mother. Men, by and large, would rather not raise another man’s children and need to be really incentivized to do so. This is a problem that just seems to keep getting worse, not better. What is Creator’s perspective?ClosedNicola asked 2 years ago • Problems in Society203 views0 answers0 votesWe’ve already probed the problem of dating for successful women, but it’s especially difficult for older successful women (and older women in general). This is so because the majority of successful and compatible men their own age are either already in successful relationships or choose to date much younger (and therefore more attractive) women, sometimes decades younger. As a result, many of these older single women are desperately lonely and find themselves making do as best they can with women friends and even pets. The stereotype of the single cat lady is on point. What is Creator’s perspective?ClosedNicola asked 2 years ago • Problems in Society209 views0 answers0 votesAnd if things weren’t bad enough, there is the problem of the “alpha male” most women find attractive—tall, dark and handsome, confident and wealthy. Except it seems a great many women misconstrue genuine narcissism for confidence. The result is that the “qualified guy” many modern women are chasing, holding out for, and compromising themselves for, turns out to be an abusive “bad boy” who ultimately treats them inconsiderately, cheats on them with other women, and even abuses them. From his perspective, he has almost endless numbers of attractive women literally lining up and competing for him, so he has little incentive to treat any of them as special. This composite character even has a name, specifically, “Chad Chaddington.” Chad might literally date more than one woman in the same evening, sleep with most on the first date, and never consider committing to anyone. As a result, he leaves in his wake scores of “alpha widows” who can never get over being spurned by Chad and who therefore have a hard time finding any other “beta” men attractive. What is Creator’s perspective?ClosedNicola asked 2 years ago • Problems in Society217 views0 answers0 votesFinally, in their desperation, women turn mostly to each other for support. There are the curious phenomena of female dating coaches and Internet influencers who themselves have been unsuccessful having romantic relationships with men. What results is a kind of echo chamber where women share their pain with each other, and it often convinces them that men are simply rotten, and to double down and not lower their standards. So they often end up even more choosy, rather than less, making their odds of ever finding a successful partner even more remote. Meanwhile, most men, and many good ones, remain utterly invisible to them. What is Creator’s perspective?ClosedNicola asked 2 years ago • Problems in Society246 views0 answers0 votesWhat is perfectly clear is that the modern dating scene presents a simply massive healing need for both men and women alike. Can Creator share with us how Empowered Prayer, the Lightworker Healing Protocol, Deep Subconscious Memory Reset, and Divine Life Support are the most effective means of truly improving the odds for both sexes in finding and maintaining a successful, long-term, rewarding romantic relationship?ClosedNicola asked 2 years ago • Problems in Society229 views0 answers0 votesIs capitalism non-divine, or a corrupted system that may have faults but is better than the alternatives for the present world?ClosedNicola asked 4 years ago • Problems in Society537 views0 answers0 votesHuman beings are social creatures. Being accepted by the people you respect is important for nearly everybody. Solitary confinement is widely regarded as one of the worst forms of punishment there is. Can Creator comment on this human need for acceptance, and how that works as a powerful, if not overwhelming, need to be part of a consensus?ClosedNicola asked 4 years ago • Problems in Society424 views0 answers0 votesDo the interlopers consider this need for peer acceptance a weakness?ClosedNicola asked 4 years ago • Problems in Society493 views0 answers0 votesPeople don’t have a need to simply be part of a consensus, but to be part of the “right” or “correct” consensus. A friend of a GetWisdom founder confessed recently that the recent election of a particularly controversial politician was one of the most stressful things that ever happened to him. This seems an extraordinary thing for a man in his mid-fifties to confess. Clearly, he wants to be a member of the “right” consensus, but when politics is split almost evenly down the middle, determining which consensus is the “correct” one, is no longer obvious. Is this an accurate way to try and understand his dilemma and angst?ClosedNicola asked 4 years ago • Problems in Society402 views0 answers0 votesHow much does past life trauma stemming from being a member of the wrong consensus, play into people’s current perceived need to be in the “right” one today? The right one being the “safest” one, perhaps?ClosedNicola asked 4 years ago • Problems in Society407 views0 answers0 votesOne of the most maddening things for independent thinkers to put up with is the widespread tendency for people to first vet the source of recommended information before deciding whether they will even look at the new information or not. This can get downright comical when people will refuse to click on a link to a “questionable” website, that is in fact a link to a story on another site they actually approve of, or appears to support something they believe. Can Creator share why this seems like “enlightened” behavior to these people?ClosedNicola asked 4 years ago • Problems in Society368 views0 answers0 votesAirplane pilots need to know which way the wind is blowing before attempting a takeoff. To do this, they will lick their finger and stick it into the air. This same kind of “check,” to see which way the “right consensus” is thinking, is observed almost everywhere. Another analogy would be to think of people walking around with a mini satellite dish on their head, that is connected 24-7 to their consensus database, like social media or a particular news outlet, so they’re never confused about what is “safe” information and what is “dangerous” information? What is Creator’s perspective of these analogies?ClosedNicola asked 4 years ago • Problems in Society420 views0 answers0 votesIt has been observed that many people genuinely fear information that has been deemed by their consensus to be dangerous, to the extent that they risk exile and banishment (or worse) if they even reveal that they know something they shouldn’t. Not unlike discovering that the car you’re driving is a stolen one, or that you are a carrier of a deadly virus. But the dilemma is, once you are exposed to information, it is very difficult to unsee it, and so people go to great lengths to avoid being exposed if they can help it. This creates some remarkable “gymnastics” at times. Can Creator comment?ClosedNicola asked 4 years ago • Problems in Society400 views0 answers0 votes
Nicola