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The role of mother is more akin to the role of helper than any other attribute type. Though all souls will experience motherhood, frequently and profoundly, the nurturing role of mother is particularly suited to the helper type. Therefore it would make sense that helpers would prefer to be female more often than not. This would help to explain perhaps why the female gender, as a whole, so closely resembles the helper type as a whole. The two roles are profoundly reinforcing of each other. If the majority (or significant percentage) of women are helpers, and the majority (or significant percentage) of helpers are women, that would really help to make sense of what seems to be readily observable. It seems helpers would make awesome grandmothers. What can Creator tell us?
ClosedNicola asked 2 months ago • 
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It was mentioned in the last show on soul attributes, that it’s not the attribute itself that is problematic, but how it is expressed. In evaluating the helper, it’s easy to see how their focus on the welfare of those around them can manifest in a positive way. But how can it manifest negatively? How can a helper be corrupted and even engage in and become “evil,” perhaps by imposing their more conservative standards and risk-aversion on others forcefully, such as the overbearing mother who limits the freedom of her children to a stultifying degree, to keep them safe, or perhaps in trying to manipulate others by performing unrequested and unneeded tasks in order to ingratiate, and then claiming “they had no choice” when confronted? Is the helper prone to being a martyr, working themselves to death, and then complaining about it incessantly? Were helpers more often than not the dreaded snitches in World War II sending “dangerous enemies” to the government for help? What can Creator tell us?
ClosedNicola asked 2 months ago • 
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