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A realtor reports that the home sellers she represents at a problem property may be the source of trouble behind not getting a buyer. I have worked on them several times now with the healing protocols. What is going on? Will things improve, or be not likely to shift any time soon?
ClosedNicola asked 1 year ago • 
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Revisiting the notion of unfairness, it makes sense that IF Creator is truly a FAIR and LOVING Creator, that with a deeper exploration of these attributes, one will discover that there is an immense balancing of cost and reward within each and every one of these attribute roles. It’s just that these compensations are not readily apparent, especially when examined through the lens of what society deems valuable and successful. So while the role of helper appears to be the least glamorous and perhaps least desirable of all the seven major categories, it is, in fact, the role where satisfaction and fulfillment are the most easily attained. The helper feels fulfilled and “right with the world” when those immediately around them are having their needs met, and are having relatively positive experiences. In other words, is “contentment” more easily experienced, more frequently and reliably, by helpers than by any other role? What can Creator tell us?
ClosedNicola asked 1 year ago • 
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Because helpers are so focused on the happiness and well-being of those around them, it would make sense that would likely be more conservative and risk-averse than perhaps any other role. This would also perhaps make them more susceptible to experience anxiety about the health, happiness, and welfare of those close to them. Is the stereotypical “worry wart” likely a helper? What can Creator tell us?
ClosedNicola asked 1 year ago • 
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It needs to be re-emphasized, that these roles have nothing to do with intelligence. Most doctors (or a significant percentage) and veterinarians are helpers, occupations that require great intelligence. What is Creator’s perspective?
ClosedNicola asked 1 year ago • 
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It would seem helper types are not good at being alone for long stretches. As cruel as solitary confinement is, it might be the most cruel to do that to a helper. Helpers have a need to be around people and even animals. Yet, are also often aware of their shortcomings as not being as gabby as orators, or as entertaining and interesting as artists, athletes, researchers, etc. This would fuel their desire to be “useful” and be the ones walking around with the coffee pot asking if anyone wants a refill (when all their cups were already full!). What advice can Creator give to others on how to best understand, value, and reward the helper types in their lives without compromising their own needs and wants, and not coming up short in the process?
ClosedNicola asked 1 year ago • 
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A viewer asks: “How can humanity know and understand, and especially how can parents teach their children, what a war is, without them having to experience a war; what hunger is, without them having to experience hunger; what Dictatorship is, without them having to suffer under a Dictatorship, and so on? Surely there has to be a better way to truly learn and understand about evil and suffering than experiencing all these horrors individually over and over again, generation after generation?” What is Creator perspective?
ClosedNicola asked 2 years ago • 
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Is Google impacting elections on a “massive scale” by sending manipulative “ephemeral experiences” as a researcher has claimed, or is that not happening, or at most, an exaggeration?
ClosedNicola asked 2 years ago • 
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Is the Israeli growth in GDP in recent years due directly to the free market capitalism introduced by Bibi Netanyahu as prime minister, to replace the prior high-tax socialist regime?
ClosedNicola asked 2 years ago • 
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Monica Raymond said, “Little white lies are part of everyday life. If you’re in court being charged with a felony, you’re probably going to be tempted to lie. Or if your girlfriend asks you if the sweater she is wearing makes her look fat; you’re going to lie because you love that person. There are different reasons and justifications to lie; it’s human nature.” What is Creator’s perspective?
ClosedNicola asked 3 years ago • 
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Pamela Meyer said, “White lies keep social dignity intact and are far more prevalent than most people realize. Several studies have found that an average person is lied to from 10 to 200 times a day – mostly just to keep a conversation going, to avoid conflict, or to establish a connection with someone.” What is Creator’s perspective?
ClosedNicola asked 3 years ago • 
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Barry Ritholz said, “Little white lies are told by humans all the time. Indeed, lying is often how we get through each day in a happy little bubble. We spend time and energy rationalizing our own behaviors, beliefs, and decision-making processes.” What is Creator’s perspective?
ClosedNicola asked 3 years ago • 
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Dale Carnegie wrote the multi-million bestseller, How to Win Friends and Influence People. Advocates would say that Carnegie taught a method of manipulating people that created “win-win” scenarios, where both the manipulated and manipulators benefited. The detractors would say Carnegie’s methods can be used to screw people. Any kind of indirect manipulation is problematic, as it arguably violates free will, especially if used to encourage “uninformed” decisions. Hypnotist and Researcher Dick Sutphen wrote of Carnegie in his book, Radical Spirituality, “The Carnegie Course teaches you to say what will work to get what you want. Isn’t that being phony or a hypocrite? Forget sincerity, forget honesty. Forget being real. Carnegie teaches you to be a diplomat and wear a mask. Masks are the fear that who and what you are isn’t adequate, so you pretend to be somebody else.” What is Creator’s perspective?
ClosedNicola asked 3 years ago • 
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Sutphen, additionally, said this about Carnegie techniques, “If you use Carnegie techniques to win friends, the friendship has to be based upon a two-way manipulation. You pretend to be the mask to attain friendship and they will be your friend as long as you wear it. What happens when your mask slips and they find out who you really are? Do you need any relationship or association so badly that you’re willing to repress your real self in order to attain it?” Many would answer YES – they have a mortgage to pay, and must wear the mask in order to stay employed. Sutphen was an independent businessman and had more freedom in that regard. What is Creator’s perspective?
ClosedNicola asked 3 years ago • 
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A close cousin of “white lies” are “lies of omission.” In navigating this world, one encounters people with “false impressions” based on judgments made quickly with incomplete information, or biases where contrary evidence is simply ignored. In these situations, allowing a person to continue believing and acting in a way that is contrary to the actual truth of a situation is often characterized as “lying by omission.” There can be countless motivations for doing this, from greed to sympathy to personal safety. Some would argue that lies of omission are just as dishonest as overt lies. What is Creator’s perspective?
ClosedNicola asked 3 years ago • 
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Children are arguably told more white lies than anyone. Most people would argue that this is an imperative and that it would be almost impossible to raise healthy children without having to resort to them. What is Creator’s perspective?
ClosedNicola asked 3 years ago • 
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