DWQA Questions › Tag: worryFilter:AllOpenResolvedClosedUnansweredSort byViewsAnswersVotesA viewer asks: “I have a one-year-old, 120-pound dog who is very timid and scared of almost everything. He avoids walks, meeting strangers, and even getting out of the car. We adopted him from a shelter when he was young, and while his brother is well-adjusted, my dog struggles with fear. I want to help heal his higher self so he can live confidently and show the world his loving nature.” What is the source of his fear and how can we best help him?ClosedNicola asked 3 months ago • Animal Issues88 views0 answers0 votesA viewer asks: “Please help me better understand the healing of emotional expression and regulation in intimate relationships. Some therapies sift through childhood experiences to find reasons why people respond the way they do. Others argue that each person’s actions spark reactions in the other. In this case, the dynamics between partners becomes the focus of healing, not the individual alone. Is it better to work on healing emotions with another, where negative emotions are calmed and we find our balance? Or is it cellular consciousness, that can become a part of the personality through its influence on the makeup of a person, that should be the focus of healing? How can these approaches be optimized?” What is Creator’s perspective?ClosedNicola asked 5 months ago • Subconscious Mind130 views0 answers0 votesCan you help me understand the huge grief burdening my new client? Is this just in need of more time to process his wife’s passing months ago, and last month the passing of her mother, who had been living with them under their care for 12 years?ClosedNicola asked 5 months ago • Spirit Possession97 views0 answers0 votesAre the spirits of either his deceased wife or her mother attached to him, or in need of a Spirit Rescue?ClosedNicola asked 5 months ago • Spirit Possession94 views0 answers0 votesHas the spirit of my client’s mother-in-law been removed from him successfully by my protocol work, or is more time needed?ClosedNicola asked 5 months ago • Spirit Possession71 views0 answers0 votesA practitioner asks: “In the past, I followed other metaphysical teachings that often put an emphasis on raising molecular vibration in the body. Would adding a request for raising our molecular vibration be beneficial to the LHP and or DSMR protocols?”ClosedNicola asked 6 months ago • Metaphysics131 views0 answers0 votes“Shame on you!” We’ve all heard it, and we’ve all said it. The Oxford Dictionary defines shame as both a feeling and an action, “a painful feeling of humiliation or distress caused by the consciousness of wrong or foolish behavior,” as well as, to “make (someone) feel ashamed.” Shame is a feeling nearly everyone everywhere tries to avoid, with the irony being that those most vulnerable to criticism are the ones most prone to overindulge in attempting to elicit that feeling in others. In some ways the dichotomy of shame is perhaps the most profound of hypocrisy litmus tests there is. What is Creator’s perspective?ClosedNicola asked 7 months ago • Limiting Beliefs157 views0 answers0 votesPavlov’s dog. If that term is unfamiliar to you, it is worth your time to get familiar with what it really means. Ivan Pavlov demonstrated a “conditioned response” in the dogs he used for experimentation. Some of these experiments were quite cruel and involved electric shocks to impair or elicit both involuntary physiological as well as behavioral responses. The act of shaming is actually a very similar paradigm, and it’s easy to imagine the one doing the shaming as having an electric shock button that they press to deliver a very uncomfortable at best, and excruciatingly painful at worst, emotional shock to the recipient’s consciousness. What is Creator’s perspective?ClosedNicola asked 7 months ago • Limiting Beliefs131 views0 answers0 votesShaming is not isolated to humans. An acquaintance has a five-year-old beagle who has an undesirable habit of urinating on the hardwood floor if not put outside on a timely basis. The dog has been trained entirely through rewards and only verbal shaming as punishment. But the effect of shaming can be quite profound. The dog knows that urinating inside the house is undesirable behavior and displeasing to the humans in the house, so the dog makes sure no one is watching when she goes. As an adult dog, she has never been caught in the act. One recent morning this acquaintance found the all too familiar puddle on the floor and turned to the dog right behind them, pointed to the puddle, and said, “No,” just, “No.” Not loud or even conveying much in the way of emotion, just enough to communicate displeasure. The response of the dog was rather extreme—tail between her legs and she wandered off to hide under the raised footrest of a recliner for a few minutes “until the coast was clear.” The acquaintance was a bit “taken aback” at the profound effect of a simple, “No.” This person does not shame the dog very often, and that may be one explanation for the exaggerated effect. What can Creator tell us?ClosedNicola asked 7 months ago • Limiting Beliefs176 views0 answers0 votesThe feeling of shame is associated with the “conscience” of a person. In fact, the very existence of this phenomenon is one of the most persuasive arguments there is for the existence of the divine. It’s hard to take the “conscience” for granted. Unfortunately, we have learned that the feeling of shame is a rather crude form of messaging that can be delivered from multiple sources, some benevolent and some malevolent. Presumably, it can come from the higher self, guides and guardians, and even Creator. It can also be triggered by the deep subconscious, cellular memory, spirit attachments, and perhaps most alarmingly of all, the interlopers—fallen angelics and extraterrestrials. Figuring out both the origin and relevancy of feelings of shame is one of the most profound challenges every human being faces. What is Creator’s perspective?ClosedNicola asked 7 months ago • Limiting Beliefs199 views0 answers0 votesShaming seems to be the very root of much political discourse, with one side attempting to shame the other side. The negative effect of all this is that people eventually get cynical about all political discourse and will shy away from it altogether. It’s even more discouraging when the ones doing the most shaming are also the most hypocritical, and the most guilty of the behavior they are shaming the other side for. What is Creator’s perspective?ClosedNicola asked 7 months ago • Limiting Beliefs164 views0 answers0 votesDefiance is the act of resisting shaming. The middle finger salute came about as it was common practice in the Middle Ages to cut off the middle finger of captured soldiers, as this finger was necessary for effective archery. Soldiers would come to taunt their enemies by showing them from across the battlefield that they still had their middle fingers. Today this gesture is widely used to communicate, “I reject your efforts to shame me.” As humans are prone to go too far in utilizing compensatory behaviors like this, we often end up rejecting more criticism and shaming in ways that are unwise. What is Creator’s perspective?ClosedNicola asked 7 months ago • Limiting Beliefs160 views0 answers0 votesIt’s bad enough when the genesis of shame is others, but it can be even more insidious when the source of shame is the self. This can result in severe depression, withdrawal, and even suicide. It can even be embraced to the extent that the person fights off those attempting to counteract and heal their shame. The term “hugging your cactus” seems quite on target. What can Creator tell us?ClosedNicola asked 7 months ago • Limiting Beliefs157 views0 answers0 votesThe Battle of the Sexes can be sometimes downright comical and often involves nearly futile attempts to shame the other gender that simply don’t work. We see this when women frequently criticize men for “not asking for directions” and men almost universally just “laugh it off.” Most men are quite literally shameless when it comes to this behavior. Likewise, many, if not most women, cannot be effectively shamed for taking too long in the bathroom, and ignore such shaming attempts as, “Oh, just so much noise,” often increasing the frustration levels of the partner. More than one divorce ultimately results from these disparities. What is Creator’s perspective?ClosedNicola asked 7 months ago • Limiting Beliefs133 views0 answers0 votesShaming can be seen as an assault on another person’s belief system. The one doing the shaming is trying to demonstrate that the belief being challenged is false or deficient in some way. This can be where there is power in numbers, and the more people that can be enlisted in joining the one attempting to shame, the more profound the shame actually experienced by the recipient can be. It’s not an exaggeration that profound public shaming and embarrassment can lead to both suicide and homicide. And while psychopaths are said to lack a conscience, shaming one publicly might be the last thing you ever do. What can Creator tell us?ClosedNicola asked 7 months ago • Limiting Beliefs119 views0 answers0 votes
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