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She continues: “This accident seems to have colored my grandmother’s life from that point forward. She spent several months recovering and was abandoned by her stepmother. She was in and out of psych wards multiple times in her life. There were nine children and two miscarriages, a raging alcoholic husband who spent his pay and caused her to seek food from the church. One daughter became an alcoholic, with pulmonary fibrosis and a creepy husband; one daughter suffered mental illness, heart disease, alcoholism, and rage (my mom); another daughter had a nervous breakdown and a pedophile husband; one daughter seemed somewhat stable; one daughter was sexually abused, manic, and lost a son; one son seems unremarkable; another son had a nervous breakdown, didn’t work; another daughter had an unhappy marriage; the final daughter had a nervous breakdown, and may be homeless. Many of her children suffered with alcoholism, or mental illness, or had breakdowns. Few were better than adequate parents, some were angry and combative. Her 26 grandchildren have attributed the less than “Leave it to Beaver” homelives to be the natural result of trauma trickling down. I now wonder if failure to transition was involved at all? Or were dark spirits attracted to the scene and stayed on? My grandmother, as the survivor, was the likely focus of any that were drawn.” What can Creator tell us?
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She continues: “There is only one of my grandmother’s children still living, and not in touch with the family. She is very likely under the sway of spirits. But I also have particular concern for one of my cousins. Her life has been particularly tragic, and is currently with an abusive husband.” What can Creator tell us?
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She continues: “Are there any lost souls or dark spirits from the car/train wreck still enjoying stirring the pot for my grandmother’s family?” What can Creator tell us?
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She continues: “Is there anything more that Creator could tell us about the energetic causes of this car/train wreck and its lasting results?” What can Creator tell us?
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Our client described struggling with a troubled relationship she has had on and off for several years with a man she was attracted to. Can you help us understand the dynamics behind this which need healing? Is this a deeply karmic pattern? Are dark spirit influences involved?
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Has there been extraterrestrial involvement or targeting of either party and is that likely to continue?
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She describes that following the breakups, she turns on herself with anger and rage. Why is that so and what is most needed to heal this?
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What is most needed to break the cycle of approach and avoidance leading nowhere, and support a healthier and happier future for both parties? Is it highest and best for her to move on, as she is currently inclined, to find a better life partner candidate? What can we tell her?
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Themistocles (thuh·mist-uh·kleez) said: “I have with me two gods, Persuasion and Compulsion.” Jenny Mollen said, “I think the power of persuasion would be the greatest superpower of all time.” Aesop said, “Persuasion is often more effectual than force.” And James Altucher (All-tuh-chur) said, “Most people don’t have the power of persuasion.” Does this explain why so many turn to compulsion instead? What is Creator’s perspective on persuasion versus coercion, and persuasion as a superpower?
ClosedNicola asked 12 months ago • 
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How much of the power of persuasion is a product of divinely bestowed soul attributes, versus a learned skill that one acquires through trial and error over many lifetimes? If a learned skill, how is that skill transferred from lifetime to lifetime? Is it recorded in the akashic records and made part of cellular memory during the fetus’s formation? Or is it something wholly spiritual in nature, retained by the spirit itself, and if one learns the power of persuasion while incarnated, are their newly discovered persuasive powers on display in the light between lives as genuine learning? What can Creator tell us?
ClosedNicola asked 12 months ago • 
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Persuasion is the power to effect CHANGE or perhaps prevent change. And even though there is a distinction made between persuasion and compulsion, the threat of compulsion can, in and of itself, be HIGHLY persuasive. The iconic fire and brimstone sermons delivered with great theatrics by eloquent ministers comes to mind. A “fear monger” or one who “peddles fear” also comes to mind. What is Creator’s perspective of persuasion AS compulsion?
ClosedNicola asked 12 months ago • 
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It’s interesting to note that the iconic “snake oil salesman” never had a storefront, like a pharmacy, but instead pulled into the town square with his wagon and hawked his magical products directly to the crowds, and then often “hightailed it” to the next town before the truth of his products became more widely known. Google defined snake oil salesmen as those who deceived people in order to get money from them. The successful ones were highly persuasive people. When one has such ability, it seems so puzzling that such a person could not find a “legitimate” avenue in which to practice those skills and be successful without all the ignominy. Good salespeople are in demand everywhere and for everything—why resort to fraud? What can Creator tell us about exploiting the masterful use of persuasion to willfully engage in fraud?
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When one does a study of some of the most effective salespeople, one often encounters a mixed bag of ethically questionable tactics. One extremely successful car salesman would sit down with a phone book, call people and tell them their new car was ready for pickup. When people inevitably said, “I didn’t order a car,” he would profusely apologize and then immediately segue into asking them if they were at all in the market for a new car. With this approach, he made a fortune and set the world record at the time for most non-fleet sales made by a car salesman “one customer at a time.” Now to his credit, he was extremely likable, attentive, thorough, and did great customer service, sent birthday cards to his customers, etc. Nevertheless, a lot of his success was predicated on a lie and deception. What is Creator’s perspective?
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In reference to the above car salesman’s success, he was successful because he was good at “cold calling” which most people have a deep aversion to. Cold calling is one of the most obvious breaches of the “Golden Rule” there is. Almost everyone HATES getting cold calls, and yet most successful salespeople will assert that you need to do it in order to be successful. Brian remembers one “boiler room” telephone canvasser who bragged how she abused anyone cold calling her but had no problem doing cold calling for a living. The stark hypocrisy was dramatic and utterly remorseless and unapologetic. She literally thought it was “hilarious” and laughed about it. Brian found it disturbing, to say the least. What is Creator’s perspective?
ClosedNicola asked 12 months ago • 
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Cold calling works precisely because so many people have an aversion to doing it. That alone makes it a successful strategy for those who can bring themselves to do it. Brian did sales in the late 80s and struggled with this dilemma. A rule of thumb is it takes 10 calls to get a lead, 10 leads to get an appointment, and 10 appointments to get a sale. Brian demonstrated to himself that, indeed, the formula works and managed to get a house listing as a result. But rather than being encouraged by his success, he was so overcome with guilt about disturbing people eating dinner that he eventually abandoned sales as a career altogether. Cold calling cannot work if everyone does it. Everyone’s phone would ring all day long and it would be utterly chaotic and untenable. There is the idea that, if “everyone” can’t, then maybe no one “should?” What is Creator’s perspective?
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