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Dale Carnegie wrote the multi-million bestseller, How to Win Friends and Influence People. Advocates would say that Carnegie taught a method of manipulating people that created “win-win” scenarios, where both the manipulated and manipulators benefited. The detractors would say Carnegie’s methods can be used to screw people. Any kind of indirect manipulation is problematic, as it arguably violates free will, especially if used to encourage “uninformed” decisions. Hypnotist and Researcher Dick Sutphen wrote of Carnegie in his book, Radical Spirituality, “The Carnegie Course teaches you to say what will work to get what you want. Isn’t that being phony or a hypocrite? Forget sincerity, forget honesty. Forget being real. Carnegie teaches you to be a diplomat and wear a mask. Masks are the fear that who and what you are isn’t adequate, so you pretend to be somebody else.” What is Creator’s perspective?
ClosedNicola asked 2 years ago • 
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Sutphen, additionally, said this about Carnegie techniques, “If you use Carnegie techniques to win friends, the friendship has to be based upon a two-way manipulation. You pretend to be the mask to attain friendship and they will be your friend as long as you wear it. What happens when your mask slips and they find out who you really are? Do you need any relationship or association so badly that you’re willing to repress your real self in order to attain it?” Many would answer YES – they have a mortgage to pay, and must wear the mask in order to stay employed. Sutphen was an independent businessman and had more freedom in that regard. What is Creator’s perspective?
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Human motivational speakers like the late Dale Carnegie spent their lives attempting to inspire individuals to face their fears and insecurities, and reach for their “dreams” of success, love, and accomplishment. Why are these types fairly rare in our society? Did they need a high level of divine alignment and protection to succeed as well as they did?
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Dale Carnegie said, “A man convinced against his will, is of the same opinion still.” Can Creator comment on that statement, if it’s true, and if so, why, and how can we help others past this barrier to divine alignment and personal growth?
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Human motivational speakers like the late Dale Carnegie spent their lives attempting to inspire individuals to face their fears and insecurities, and reach for their “dreams” of success, love, and accomplishment. Why are these types fairly rare in our society? Did they need a high level of divine alignment and protection to succeed as well as they did?
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Dale Carnegie said, “A man convinced against his will, is of the same opinion still.” Can Creator comment on that statement, if it’s true, and if so, why, and how can we help others past this barrier to divine alignment and personal growth?
ClosedNicola asked 3 years ago • 
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