DWQA Questions › Tag: Law of AttractionFilter:AllOpenResolvedClosedUnansweredSort byViewsAnswersVotesA viewer asks: “According to psychologist Laura L. Carstensen later-life couples often prioritize stability in their relationship over disagreement; they communicate gently and avoid overt conflict. They prioritize emotional closeness and positivity in interactions and tend to minimize negative exchanges. But this reduction in visible conflict can mean grievances and resentments are unresolved and can become a pattern of indefinite avoidance. When important concerns are unresolved, partners may feel unheard, isolated, or disconnected, even within long-standing relationships. Is this a wise recognition of time being finite and reaching for love or a shortcoming in addressing problems? Is talking enough?”ClosedNicola asked 1 day ago • Divine Guidance25 views0 answers0 votesA viewer asks: “Many families have a “conspiracy of silence,” where airing upsets is seen as disloyal. Men are expected to absorb pain and appear strong; women to maintain family harmony. This can lead to resentment, passive-aggression, emotional withdrawal, or illness. Fear of distress or abandonment often motivates a withdrawn silence. Talking about problems is the pop-psychology remedy but with dubious success as it often backfires. Perhaps changing the “conspiracy” seems to requires self-differentiation, boundaries, emotional regulation, and additional support before opening up. Is it wiser to build these qualities first, perhaps requesting divine support in doing so, before airing grievances?”ClosedNicola asked 1 day ago • Divine Guidance20 views0 answers0 votesA viewer asks: “‘You create your own reality’ has become a New Age mantra. It’s really though referring to a person’s inner experience, not an outside situation or circumstances. However, there do seem to be some leverage points on creating the inner experience and on intentional action. Perception depends on: what is selected for attention (based on threats, rewards, goal-relevant cues), questioning first impressions as final truth, moderation of strong emotional reactions (defensiveness, overreaction, etc.), cognitive appraisal (based on beliefs and past experiences), and then a story that integrates it all. To what extent can a person influence this process of constructing their inner reality for the better?” What is Creator’s perspective?ClosedNicola asked 1 day ago • Divine Guidance23 views0 answers0 votesA viewer asks: “Many people struggle with setting personal emotional or opinion and perspective boundaries. They fear rejection, worry about appearing selfish, or grew up in environments where boundaries weren’t modeled. It’s common to feel guilty initially when enforcing new limits, even though boundaries are fundamentally about self-respect. Is one aspect of Divine Principle for living #7 (…meet your responsibility to be your soul’s guardian, and take care of its safety and protection from harm) to be bold in holding the line, even when it feels uncomfortable, without being blunt, cold, or confrontational? Is this about practicing self-love through behavior, not over-accommodating or over-sacrificing?”ClosedNicola asked 3 months ago • Divine Guidance94 views0 answers0 votesA viewer asks: “Married couples often think, “If we just love each other more everything will work out.” Humanity, though, identifies specific sources of difficulties and solutions. Psychological approaches focus on personality traits, attachment styles, and emotional patterns. Sociological approaches focus on social structures, norms, and inequalities. Therapeutic approaches focus on communication, conflict resolution, and repair. Behavioral approaches focus on marriage as a set of changeable behaviors. Given the high levels of ignorance of the karmic causes of relationship troubles, and the weaknesses and variable effectiveness of the main approaches, how can “be more loving,” even the divine principles version, be enough?” What is Creator’s perspective?ClosedNicola asked 5 months ago • Divine Guidance130 views0 answers0 votesA viewer asks: “Would the techniques of releasing trapped emotions, as expressed in Dr. Bradley Nelson’s book The Emotion Code be of benefit for conscious healing processes? Dr. Nelson claims that his procedure reaches the subconscious and interacts with it in clearing trapped emotions.”ClosedNicola asked 6 months ago • Divine Guidance131 views0 answers0 votesA viewer asks: “Many people assume the self is mostly fixed, defined by circumstances, something to “find,” not something you shape or choose. But modern psychology sees the self as constructed, context-sensitive, and changeable. Some philosophers and New Age advocates also claim we can choose who we become. We seem to have part of us that defines an “automatic experience of reality” that decides what becomes “real” for us but we also seem to have a capacity to choose a new “intentional reality” as a story we choose and create by changing how we interpret things via our beliefs and biases. Can Creator give a brief tutorial to explain this dilemma to help us intentionally create better versions of ourselves?” What can Creator tell us?ClosedNicola asked 6 months ago • Divine Guidance142 views0 answers0 votesA viewer asks: “Richard J. Davidson, author of “The Emotional Life of Your Brain”, says understanding the brain increases agency over emotional reactions. He claims you can train the brain to respond differently to challenges and that with the right mental exercises, and habits, it’s possible to reshape neural pathways, enhance resilience, attention, and overall emotional well-being. For example, he claims that naming an emotion activates the prefrontal cortex, which helps regulate the brain’s fear-and-stress center. He says the prefrontal cortex can also regulate other emotion-generating regions (amygdala, insula, hippocampus). How effective are these suggestions in gaining agency over emotional reaction?”ClosedNicola asked 6 months ago • Divine Guidance102 views0 answers0 votesA viewer asks: “The classical view of emotions is they “happen to you” – regulation means managing reactions after they occur (e.g., calming down when angry). Lisa Feldman Barrett’s Theory of Constructed Emotion however argues that emotions are constructed (based on context, past learning, and bodily input) rather than hardwired biological and universal responses. If correct, practices like increasing body awareness, expanding emotional vocabulary, and reframing experiences can change the way we build emotions in real time. How well can this framework be used to turn emotional reactions into something we can consciously shape, meaning we have agency over how we feel, rather than just endure?”ClosedNicola asked 6 months ago • Divine Guidance136 views0 answers0 votesA practitioner asks: “I saw in a social media post someone claiming to have canceled all of their soul contracts by revoking their consent. According to them this had an immediate effect and improved their life, although not many details were given. Can we use our free will to cancel soul contracts? Would this have an effect on our current incarnation? In the LHP we ask for “dissolving and transmuting karmic contracts.” Are karmic contracts and soul contracts the same thing? Is the request in the LHP different from what the person described? I assume the LHP focuses on healing contracts and not canceling them, although the term ‘dissolving’ could also be interpreted to mean ‘canceling.'” What can we tell him?ClosedNicola asked 8 months ago • Karma193 views0 answers0 votesA viewer asks: “Creator has said that people must do all they can to overcome difficulties because this provides more intentional energy, and because if Creator helps too much, people do not develop responsibility and abilities. Is the LHP request for Creator to address self-limiting mindsets sufficient to maximize the effectiveness of people using self-help methods like journaling, mindfulness and breathing exercises, physical activity, positive social support, and cognitive reframing sufficient to optimally address common non-clinical emotional patterns such as shame, fear, regret, self-doubt, loneliness, procrastination, meaninglessness, etc? Would explicit prayers to heal these upsets be beneficial?” What is Creator’s perspective?ClosedNicola asked 10 months ago • Lightworker Healing Protocol208 views0 answers0 votesA practitioner asks: “Would it be helpful to pray to you, Creator, to not only replace all self-limiting beliefs but to be open to and be inspired by beliefs that are positive, powerful, and the most helpful in fostering our highest alignment with Creator in the safest and quickest way for all levels of the mind? Or would this be an addition we could make to the LHP if we are interested in that for ourselves? How can we cultivate beliefs that are shaped and constructed by higher truth to serve us? What can Source Creator share with us regarding guiding the improvement of our beliefs?” What is Creator’s perspective?ClosedNicola asked 10 months ago • Limiting Beliefs205 views0 answers0 votesA viewer asks: “Creator, if we are subjected to self-limiting beliefs from interloper mind control, can you tell us if there are positive expanding beliefs we could suggest to ourselves to counter them? Beliefs like, “I am unlimited.” Could you give us an example or guide to picking them and how they could be implemented effectively?” What is Creator’s perspective?ClosedNicola asked 11 months ago • Limiting Beliefs330 views0 answers0 votesA viewer asks: “Many people claim healing through the work of [a prominent doctor] using meditation. Are they truly healing solely through the power of the mind?” What is Creator’s perspective?ClosedNicola asked 2 years ago • Healing559 views0 answers0 votesShe asks: “Is karmic repair involved through divine intervention in those meditation sessions with [this doctor]?” What is Creator’s perspective?ClosedNicola asked 2 years ago • Healing487 views0 answers0 votes
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