A viewer asks: “Many families have a “conspiracy of silence,” where airing upsets is seen as disloyal. Men are expected to absorb pain and appear strong; women to maintain family harmony. This can lead to resentment, passive-aggression, emotional withdrawal, or illness. Fear of distress or abandonment often motivates a withdrawn silence. Talking about problems is the pop-psychology remedy but with dubious success as it often backfires. Perhaps changing the “conspiracy” seems to requires self-differentiation, boundaries, emotional regulation, and additional support before opening up. Is it wiser to build these qualities first, perhaps requesting divine support in doing so, before airing grievances?”

We would go even further and state that the ideal is for people to form a partnership with the divine from childhood and be encouraged to do so by loving parents who themselves are allied with Creator in carrying out their lives. And in working on deep inner issues and liabilities through a combination of healing requests and empowered prayer, people can then request divine inspiration and guidance, healing and protection, to best prepare themselves for all life brings their way, and, to know how best to interact and work on challenges to address ongoing unresolved problems and points of disagreement or dissatisfaction with relationships. After all, there is a reason people incarnate into a family, and it is often to address old grievances and resolve imbalances for harm done to one another in prior lifetimes. We guarantee you there are unfinished healing needs always hovering and applying a certain pressure, and that can expand to dangerous proportions if the Law of Karma activates things to make prior needs a current problem that is front and center, and may well get in the way of anything in the current life.