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A viewer asks: “According to psychologist Laura L. Carstensen later-life couples often prioritize stability in their relationship over disagreement; they communicate gently and avoid overt conflict. They prioritize emotional closeness and positivity in interactions and tend to minimize negative exchanges. But this reduction in visible conflict can mean grievances and resentments are unresolved and can become a pattern of indefinite avoidance. When important concerns are unresolved, partners may feel unheard, isolated, or disconnected, even within long-standing relationships. Is this a wise recognition of time being finite and reaching for love or a shortcoming in addressing problems? Is talking enough?”
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A viewer asks: “Many families have a “conspiracy of silence,” where airing upsets is seen as disloyal. Men are expected to absorb pain and appear strong; women to maintain family harmony. This can lead to resentment, passive-aggression, emotional withdrawal, or illness. Fear of distress or abandonment often motivates a withdrawn silence. Talking about problems is the pop-psychology remedy but with dubious success as it often backfires. Perhaps changing the “conspiracy” seems to requires self-differentiation, boundaries, emotional regulation, and additional support before opening up. Is it wiser to build these qualities first, perhaps requesting divine support in doing so, before airing grievances?”
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A viewer asks: “‘You create your own reality’ has become a New Age mantra. It’s really though referring to a person’s inner experience, not an outside situation or circumstances. However, there do seem to be some leverage points on creating the inner experience and on intentional action. Perception depends on: what is selected for attention (based on threats, rewards, goal-relevant cues), questioning first impressions as final truth, moderation of strong emotional reactions (defensiveness, overreaction, etc.), cognitive appraisal (based on beliefs and past experiences), and then a story that integrates it all. To what extent can a person influence this process of constructing their inner reality for the better?” What is Creator’s perspective?
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A practitioner asks: “I have heard it mentioned by practitioners (and I have noticed this too) that they tend to feel sleepy when delivering the protocols. We all have our techniques to prevent adverse reactions and mine happens to be walking during my LHP work. Is this tired feeling due to the energetic demands made on our psyche by the practicing of the protocols? It is after all, one’s energy which is used in order to relay requests to Creator, even if ultimately, it is the Divine’s energy which is employed to heal the client. Would it be true to state that the protocols are worded in the most efficient way to impart the energy of our requests to Creator and that the practitioner may sometimes feel this?”
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A viewer asks: “Many people struggle with setting personal emotional or opinion and perspective boundaries. They fear rejection, worry about appearing selfish, or grew up in environments where boundaries weren’t modeled. It’s common to feel guilty initially when enforcing new limits, even though boundaries are fundamentally about self-respect. Is one aspect of Divine Principle for living #7 (…meet your responsibility to be your soul’s guardian, and take care of its safety and protection from harm) to be bold in holding the line, even when it feels uncomfortable, without being blunt, cold, or confrontational? Is this about practicing self-love through behavior, not over-accommodating or over-sacrificing?”
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A practitioner asks: “I have always used finger testing when doing an LHP or DSMR session. I usually don’t get any flashes of insight while doing the sessions. I have more recently started using finger testing to ask if someone has gone to the light, or if I should do something in my personal life that I am questioning. I usually double check the answer to make sure I get the same answer two times in a row. Intuitively, I feel this has become a very accurate way to ask Creator something and get an accurate answer. Is my intuition correct, or is finger testing still a more iffy way to get an answer from Creator?”
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A viewer asks: “Married couples often think, “If we just love each other more everything will work out.” Humanity, though, identifies specific sources of difficulties and solutions. Psychological approaches focus on personality traits, attachment styles, and emotional patterns. Sociological approaches focus on social structures, norms, and inequalities. Therapeutic approaches focus on communication, conflict resolution, and repair. Behavioral approaches focus on marriage as a set of changeable behaviors. Given the high levels of ignorance of the karmic causes of relationship troubles, and the weaknesses and variable effectiveness of the main approaches, how can “be more loving,” even the divine principles version, be enough?” What is Creator’s perspective?
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A viewer asks: “Would the techniques of releasing trapped emotions, as expressed in Dr. Bradley Nelson’s book The Emotion Code be of benefit for conscious healing processes? Dr. Nelson claims that his procedure reaches the subconscious and interacts with it in clearing trapped emotions.”
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A viewer asks: “Many people assume the self is mostly fixed, defined by circumstances, something to “find,” not something you shape or choose. But modern psychology sees the self as constructed, context-sensitive, and changeable. Some philosophers and New Age advocates also claim we can choose who we become. We seem to have part of us that defines an “automatic experience of reality” that decides what becomes “real” for us but we also seem to have a capacity to choose a new “intentional reality” as a story we choose and create by changing how we interpret things via our beliefs and biases. Can Creator give a brief tutorial to explain this dilemma to help us intentionally create better versions of ourselves?” What can Creator tell us?
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A viewer asks: “Richard J. Davidson, author of “The Emotional Life of Your Brain”, says understanding the brain increases agency over emotional reactions. He claims you can train the brain to respond differently to challenges and that with the right mental exercises, and habits, it’s possible to reshape neural pathways, enhance resilience, attention, and overall emotional well-being. For example, he claims that naming an emotion activates the prefrontal cortex, which helps regulate the brain’s fear-and-stress center. He says the prefrontal cortex can also regulate other emotion-generating regions (amygdala, insula, hippocampus). How effective are these suggestions in gaining agency over emotional reaction?”
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A viewer asks: “The classical view of emotions is they “happen to you” – regulation means managing reactions after they occur (e.g., calming down when angry). Lisa Feldman Barrett’s Theory of Constructed Emotion however argues that emotions are constructed (based on context, past learning, and bodily input) rather than hardwired biological and universal responses. If correct, practices like increasing body awareness, expanding emotional vocabulary, and reframing experiences can change the way we build emotions in real time. How well can this framework be used to turn emotional reactions into something we can consciously shape, meaning we have agency over how we feel, rather than just endure?”
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A viewer asks: “Can you please check if Leopold Stokowski is in the light? He is this century’s greatest conductor.” What can Creator tell us?
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A practitioner asks: “Several years ago, my daughter nearly missed involvement in a violent auto collision. She states when she pressed the accelerator to move forward, the car didn’t respond. While trying to move, she noted an out-of-control vehicle entering the intersection at a high rate of speed and then lost control, crashing into some woods. I believe this was evidence of divine intervention. Was this seen by the divine realm and acted upon by her guardian angels as a routine safety incursion or was this possibly a retrocausal result from my LHP-DSMR work in recent years after the incident?” What can we tell him?
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He asks: “Were my own close calls as a child, nearly attacked by a cleric, also a result of the LHP work done in recent times?” What can we tell him?
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Creator recently channeled that the greatest karmic rewards come to those who take on the greatest challenges. You wouldn’t think that playing football for the Detroit Lions would amount to much of a karmic challenge, but since we have learned that they have been a targeted group since 1958, and Detroit is a targeted city due to Detroit’s prominent role in helping the Allies win World War II, it turns out that anyone playing for and coaching for the Detroit Lions was putting themselves squarely in harm’s way. Detroit developed a pernicious and persistent losing culture. Like many karmic dilemmas, it seemed the situation just got worse with time. Negative karma has a tendency to compound, to spiral downward, and eventually reach a point where the entity trapped in the dilemma is no longer in a position to save themselves. Was this truly the situation with the Lions organization prior to a campaign being launched to heal them using the Lightworker Healing Protocol? What can Creator tell us?
ClosedNicola asked 2 years ago • 
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