This is not a consequence of being out of divine alignment, it is a consequence of greater than normal inner awareness. She is looking at prior existences she has lived as a male and is simply cueing off that as a prediction of her future in the current life when that need not be the case. There is need for further maturation and things will sort themselves out here if she is simply loved and supported and allowed to grow and blossom in her own way. She is not corrupted or being manipulated to develop an abnormality. This is simply how she is finding her way along. She is very precocious and simply sharing inner awarenesses most young people do not have consciously, so such questions do not arise, or if they do, are not discussed because the parents have never shown an openness to such discussion. She knows that you are trustworthy and insightful and looks to you for guidance, so the burden is on you to find a way to handle this with equanimity by continuing to give her loving support and encouragement that she will come into her own and will figure out her life and what is best for her, if she follows her heart.