DWQA QuestionsCategory: Lightworker Healing ProtocolMy mentally disturbed client [name withheld] left me two angry voicemails today blaming me for her troubles and accusing me of pouring demons into her life and collaborating with her archenemies. I am reluctant to interact with her again if she has become so unbalanced as to turn against a friend. What would you advise I do in this situation? Is it good to reach out by phone and attempt to deny her accusations to at least have that on record, or will that simply inflame things if she is delusional?
Nicola Staff asked 5 years ago
We appreciate your situation and your loving concern for her as well as your personal disappointment, and your worries now about safety of family. We do not see safety concerns as being important at this point. She has many who she has run-ins with in various encounters and attempts to gain control of situations but is easily rebuffed. She is simply frustrated, angry, and yes, more delusional, and this is now turning in your direction. Sooner or later, everyone in her sphere of influence takes a turn as being a target for her self-inflicted drama and is branded the culprit. It is simply her paranoid thinking attempting to come to grips with why things are not improving but getting worse. So in her mind, a logical answer is to look to whom she is relying on to better things, and when they do not get better but seem to worsen, you have become a scapegoat. So we see no percentage in prolonging the agony or conflict here for either party. Her mind is made up at the moment. Your defense will fall on deaf ears at this point in time, because her thinking is neither logical nor flexible and open to a dose of reason. She may well conclude any attempt to counter her will be a further attempt to manipulate, lie, and escape from the accusation and its desire to seek justice. This may only worsen things. She may be left with a sinister interpretation if you do not respond, but she has a long history of your being quite busy and she herself will understand you would not desire to have an unpleasant experience, so she may right the ship here and you can do healing requests on her behalf as well. If she does catch you by phone down the line, you can simply explain to her you felt she was not herself and did not want to perhaps make things worse by trying to disagree, even though you felt she was misinterpreting things, and simply did not want to disturb her but simply let her be and continue doing some prayer work on her behalf, and had made the decision to not engage with her because this seems to only lead to you being blamed. When the divine realm does not come through, it is indeed our lack of carrying out effective healing that is not totally bringing her back into alignment. As you would expect, this cannot be done at the present time because she must be allowed to have the choice of her own negative beliefs about the world, those in it, and herself. It is sad and frustrating when you are wanting to help her, and especially so when you are now becoming a target of her wrath when it is divine realm who are truly letting her down. But unfortunately, the usual rules of the road are preventing this from happening and she will have to do her best to muddle along. Your healing requests are continuing to chip away at the backlog of need here, and we would recommend you continue adding her on occasion in your sessions to further help her get along. The Soul Reset is proceeding but very slowly because of its complexity, so it will not be bringing forth the miracle anytime soon. We truly think this is best to let it be, and go from there. We would not hesitate, as you know, to send you into the breach if it was the best approach for either you or her, but such is not the case.