DWQA QuestionsCategory: Divine GuidanceThere is an old English proverb, “All work and no play makes Jack a dull boy.” What is Creator’s perspective on this popular proverb?
Nicola Staff asked 2 years ago
This, indeed, is a truism. Life is meant to be enjoyed; it is not meant to be drudgery. Even in service to a higher good, to have joy in the equation always means that serving the self must be a component of one’s day. Doing anything for too long a time, especially with intensity and extreme focus of attention, can be grueling and draining and will eventually deplete the reservoir of energy that any human can command. The entire rhythm of life in the physical is governed by human limitation, taking into account the fulfillment of inner drives for all manner of things was designed to be pleasurable. This is why the need for fuel, experienced as having hunger, creates an opportunity for extreme enjoyment from the pleasures of eating. Similarly, the need for water leads to thirst and the quenching of thirst is one of the greatest pleasures to be experienced. Need we bring up lust and its joys as a further example of physical imperatives that give rise to great joy if one does the right things to bring out the maximum of potential benefit? Even in the physical workings of the body that provide all manner of capability for doing useful work through the muscles and nerves, the coordination, and the skeletal system to provide support and create an inner framework to leverage against to lift great weights and travel long distances on one’s own, and so forth. Even standing for extended periods of time while attending to productive duties requires a great deal of energy investment and stamina, but even the workings of the body can be enjoyable—starting a fresh day, stretching the muscles, perhaps taking a brisk walk. Simple acts like this can bring great pleasure and many delights, especially when connecting to nature as part of the experience. This is all because it is how you were constructed, to enjoy and appreciate what you have, what you are made of, your very makeup and its workings; it suits you and this is all purposeful. The very experiencing of contrast provides variety and can be a stimulus to creativity. Humans were created to be ever-changing, to be in motion, to be a work in progress but "progress" being the key here, not to stagnate or experience boredom through a lack of variety in having a sameness that can be stultifying and quite limiting in the end because it is constrained by definition to "limit one’s reach." And when nothing is being learned and a person is not growing in some way, this will take a toll because you are truly made to be on the march, to be expanding, and using creativity to devise new strategies, new goals for the self, and to work at refining how you navigate in the course of your life to get the most out of the experience. This is why with a little ingenuity people usually find that even the mundane routines of life can be made enjoyable by adding a little variety, even in small ways. This is asserting the self and honoring the soul in seeking some pleasure to offset the drudgery and this is good practice as well, because much of life as a physical human will be devoted to making the life experience better in some way, more enjoyable, more rewarding, more uplifting, and more in divine alignment, which is a reach for joy, and that will not happen from a place of minimization and lack and sameness where possibilities are restricted severely. That is much like being in prison, which is a soul-deadening environment, to be sure, because of the lack of variety and the lack of possibilities for new adventures and unrestricted growth and learning as a springboard to stimulate and excite the being. So we would say that play is an invaluable companion as you live your life because there is a need for balance, given that most work is not of one’s choosing but done at the behest of others for pay, simply to adapt to circumstances and have money to live on and some financial wherewithal to provide for oneself with regard to necessities of life like food, clothing, and shelter. But, as most people experience, it is when they are at play they truly come alive. The experiencing of this contrast is universal in looking at schoolchildren when the bell rings and it is the end of the school day and they explode with joy racing to escape the classroom and to go bounding outdoors, enjoying their freedom and filled with excitement and expectation about the possibility of new adventures they can create through their own ingenuity. This is a deeper truism in this saying that most work makes people dull; it is stultifying, soul-deadening, and a limitation on personal growth in many respects at many levels. There is nothing sadder than living one’s life as a wage slave and never experiencing love and joy from human companionship—the workings of love in both giving and receiving. Most would categorize expressions of love as a form of play rather than work and this is a shining example of why life without play is not worth living. If you are not playing, at least some of the time, you are denying your soul room to breathe and selling yourself short with a kind of self-imposed restriction that becomes a punishment if maintained for too long a time, and it will take a toll and leave damage in its wake. You were created and meant to live with joy in a state of bliss. The demands and hardships of physical existence are teaching you other lessons about the possibility of negativity creeping in and becoming quite a challenge indeed, not to mention the problem of evil that has overtaken your realm and stands squarely in your way. That is a lot to reckon with, but even doing lofty work on behalf of the divine and the human family as a whole is not meant to be the only pursuit as some balance is required to keep you in the most functional mode where you are honed and sharpened by the contrasts of life experience, learning many new things and growing in the process, taking time out to revel in your accomplishments. To turn to simple pleasures that give you delight as a kind of fun is reconnecting with who you truly are in a profound way, more than one would think. Light beings are not solemn and somber, but joyous and experiencing much laughter and spontaneity of emotions of all kinds, somewhat akin to the difference between living through one’s heart or through one’s mind.