DWQA QuestionsCategory: KarmaA client asks: “I have a problem with cords I know go from me to family members. My 9-year-old is full of negativity, anger, and I’m worried if this continues, it will result in self-harm. It is coming from me. I can’t even love her.” What is going on here?
Nicola Staff asked 3 years ago
Here, too, there are similar issues going on and there is a karmic backdrop. You have been in lives together previously and had clashes, a kind of test of wills, so there is old anger and your deep mind and hers both know this and the old grievances have been resurrected and are being fussed over. That is a prescription for bad blood, to be a factor in the emotional temperament of your relationship, but will be difficult to understand because again, this is hidden history, at least from the conscious mind, so it will give rise to disappointments and then secondary feelings of perhaps being inadequate or seeing the worst in your daughter and she in you at times. But those feelings are being colored by the bias generated from the karmic history. This is a common dilemma people have. You reincarnate with prior family members many times to work on old difficulties and it brings back a recreation of the problem in order to work on making progress to fix it, but that can be quite unpleasant and may prove impossible, depending on readiness and the awareness level of the parties involved and the extent to which an effective divine healing solution can be requested in an effective manner. So with the many variables, success is always uncertain but is worth the attempt. Everything you heal will be to your advantage for all of your future, because once healing is accomplished you are truly done with those issues, and even those individuals, and need not subject yourself to them again because your obligations have ended. That is sometimes the best outcome. We have many people in our lives as a learning opportunity and that can bring pain as well as joy. The art of living is to do the best one can and that will bring a benefit to all involved and bring you back more into divine alignment, which is a blessing.