DWQA QuestionsCategory: KarmaA viewer writes: “I have some issues: Firstly, though my creativity has been pouring out in comparison to the past wherein I did not feel creative at all, I feel there is still a blockage that is not allowing me to move further, and also a lack of creativity because I feel not good enough and am trivializing it. Secondly, is my inability to learn a language. I am married to an Austrian and have been trying to learn German for a few years now. Despite me making my best efforts to learn the language, somehow it just doesn’t sit within my brain. I have a rebellious attitude towards the language. Lastly, for many years I experienced disharmony with my husband, though our relationship has improved recently and we are making a conscious effort, I am wondering if this has got to do with some past life and hoping it will not reoccur.” How can we help her?
Nicola Staff asked 3 years ago
This, indeed, is a multifaceted problem stemming from old karmic business. There are prior lifetimes of friction between the two of you so that is a karmic influence at work here and giving rise to the difficulty in the current relationship, so it is simply one that is very loaded. There is a desire and in fact an important karmic reason for coming together, but the intention is primarily to allow work on and healing of the prior dilemmas never resolved in another lifetime. This does set you up to have a strained relationship and some difficulties unless and until healing can be achieved—that can be arranged through work with the Lightworker Healing Protocol on the two of you to address the long‑standing karmic issues, and that would be a good beginning. Indeed, this is influencing your reactions to him, the degree of closeness the two of you can share from both yours and his perspectives, and this is reflected as well in your mixed feelings about learning his language because this will further entangle you and further draw you closer and part of you is resisting that desire because of the bad blood carryover from other past life difficulties. So the healing will help resolve some of the resistance and confusion in the mixed energies you are experiencing about it all that sometimes work against you. It will make life easier and your relationship to go much smoother, to have more healing done for these issues, so it would be a blessing for you both regardless of your future and the possibilities of truly living in harmony or not being the greatest and most ideal partnership. What matters is there is a karmic imperative currently in the way of your progress and soul journey because of the unhealed aspects, so it is simply taking care of business to address it, and then you can go from there and things will get better in whatever way is meant to happen.