Did I get an accurate accounting from the daughter’s deep subconscious about the three past lives with a disappointing mom, from her perspective? Was that also the current mom in each case?

What you heard and saw is all correct, and a correct interpretation of things. This drama has played out over and over between the two. So the past lives of difficulty between mother and daughter on both sides all involve the same two individuals. It is an elaborate and repeating orchestration for this same dynamic to happen again and again. This is standard operating procedure with the many targeted individuals the Extraterrestrial Alliance is tracking at all times. They have a vested interest in subjugating, in particular, those individuals who have been more difficult to constrain with mind control manipulation alone, and have learned through experience they can be endangered by these advanced humans who are not easily rendered complacent and subservient through a manipulation of their mind to make them avoid any controversial thoughts or actions. The only way to break the pattern and the stranglehold of the Extraterrestrial Alliance is to do healing work.