DWQA QuestionsCategory: KarmaA viewer asks: “I have a daughter who has slowly over time cut me out of her life. She can’t be specific but feels I am a toxic force in her life. I am at a total loss as to understanding this. There is something in me or something in her working against us.” What can we tell her?
Nicola Staff asked 3 years ago
This is a consequence of karmic forces at work. You have been in past lifetimes together where there was tension and fierce competition as mother and daughter, and things happened, leaving the other party feeling betrayed. That is what is taking place now, that there are rumblings because on a deep subconscious level she is feeling the need to be on her guard and pull away from you and is feeling old resentments. This is simply because the deep subconscious can not differentiate past life issues, over and done with, from the current timeline and the potential for the same things coming again. All it sees are that you are her mother and a risk to her, and she is getting the emotional spillover from the prior era because the wounds that were created have never been resolved. That is possible to do now, with the Lightworker Healing Protocol. It cannot be guaranteed. There may be an overlay of issues from the current life as well this is playing into. So a conscious choice and beliefs that you need to be kept at arm's length, may or may not shift. The divine realm can only work to undo the woundings of the past, and then whether the current mind will let go of its concerns and have a shift in beliefs, or whether they will persist more or less a habit that, once formed, traps the person into a similar routine, remains to be seen. But the healing must start somewhere, and that would be our recommendation, to take this step because it will diffuse things and that will help both of you to have a better future. Even if the present circumstance persists, you have future lives as well to be lived, and you may need to come back and face the same dilemma again if it is not healed in the current life. So there are several possibilities here, one being that the problem is resolved and a better relationship is enjoyed in the current life by the two of you. It might also be that the relationship does not improve but this removes the need to come back together again to do the repair, because enough healing will be done in the current life, but unfortunately some of the inner beliefs are now stubbornly in place so the benefit will not be felt in the near term. Either way, the healing effort is very worthwhile. It might free you both to move on to other things with other individuals that serve your soul journey more than the two of you to be together, and if the karma is resolved fully enough there will not be a compelling need to plan another go-round in a new physical life just to finalize that last bit of healing that might still be pending.