Nicola Staff asked 1 day ago
The example we would like to give you for this next presentation is the story of a young girl who is torn between families because of divorce. This is an all-too-common outcome in today's world, especially given the increasingly fragile state of marriage and marital vows, once considered obligatory and lifelong because of their spiritual nature and as dictated by religion. While this is a well-known source of distress for children in this situation, where a parental union dissolves and they are sometimes neglected or end up with one of the parents not to their liking and would prefer to be with the other. That is the case here with the separation of the maternal parents through a highly emotionally charged divorce. There was a battle for custody and this became a further compounding influence on the young girl, who was feeling buffeted about as though she were in a tug-of-war but suspended above a deep chasm in fear of being dropped by one or the other, or both, of her loving parents. Given the natural love of young people for both their mother and father, a family breakup is always a loss for the children to some extent, more so in some cases than others, as when there is abuse, for example, and it is a blessing to get away from the offender. But in families where there is simply a growing incompatibility of the parents and this ends in estrangement and divorce, it is puzzling and disappointing and a source of great fear for many children, depending on their age and vulnerability and primarily their karmic history.
The sad situation in this case study example is the young girl had a karmic history of losing her father in multiple lifetimes, and this sets her up to fear such an eventuality and to have the many memories of trauma be perceived in the akashic records by her deep subconscious. It also causes nightmares as she deals with the trauma from re-exposure to the scenes of the past from her mind going out and reviewing events in other lives she has lived in parallel. This is the unappreciated factor in what shapes a child into their persona as they learn and grow. It is an entirely unseen and unappreciated influence but nonetheless a quite significant one, in many, many, cases. It is something the children will not be aware of for the most part, consciously, but will be heavily influenced in their emotions about all kinds of things they relate to in seeing potential threats to their welfare in the current life because of past difficulties. And this will create many highly sensitive topics and circumstances that represent landmines a child can step on and set off to their detriment. In this case, this was a karmic setup all the way along, that the parents made a pre-life plan in the light to have this young girl as their daughter and work on the issue of the marital relationship and its durability. And an agreement was made to have her as a daughter so she as well could work on the issue of childhood trauma from marital breakup of the parents.
It seems quite strange people would choose to do this, but that is because you see the world as simply there to serve you, when the reality of existence is that you were created to serve the broader existence as well as your own individual needs. Lightbeings fully understand the importance of healing what gets injured and take it most seriously, to the extent of returning into a new incarnation and undergoing the same travails as they perhaps suffered more than once, and at the risk it will overtake them yet again and further compound the damage already done. And that is the case with this family group, when things went down the same path and led the young girl to be separated from the father on a long-term basis in the way things were settled with the consequences of the separation, making it impractical for parental visitation with the father.
In all too many cases, the parent providing care for the young will disparage their former partner and poison the mind of the young against them because their own hatred and disappointment and anger can be so very great, they do not see or realize it will do lifelong damage in shaping the mind of their child. The issue is not really whether the absent parent is viewed unfairly and cannot defend themselves and thus will be further estranged from the young children involved. The problem is a deeper and more important one, that loss of parental love is a devastating trauma apart from all other factors and considerations. So, given there will be a love deficit underway regardless of whether the parents remain on speaking terms and encourage visits with the children by the noncustodial parent, having a deficit of love in one's early life is a prescription for lifelong relationship problems. The reaction to such circumstances can bring about severe low self-esteem, with the child feeling they are wanting, and perhaps unlovable. There will be fears of abandonment by the remaining parent and thus a chronic state of anxiety, many times, that will be completely hidden and not expressed. The odds of a successful marriage for children from a disrupted family will be lower and the lifelong happiness restricted accordingly. Given the large numbers of failed marriages, the toll on society, individually and collectively, is enormous in terms of the pain-and-suffering it causes. But there will be fallout as well in the quality of life, directly and indirectly, because of the lifelong alterations in thoughts feelings and actions from the trauma brought about through disrupting the normal family unit.
It is most fortunate this young girl is on the wish list of a Divine Life Support member and this has enabled us to go to work directly with her, to not only bring reassurance about her status that she is not abandoned, but deeply loved and will still have every prospect of a healthy, happy, life. The key is in working on the karmic history and this became, in effect, a fulfillment of the contract she made with the parents while the three were still in the light, to accomplish this very thing, individually and collectively. So we can tell you that work on healing for this young girl included intensive healing work for both the biological mother and the biological father because all are embroiled in a significant karmic triangle of unresolved past life trauma. This is also a good example of how one life can touch so many others, and the healing for one ends up benefiting many to varying degrees, but meaningfully so. And that is a tremendous accomplishment given that the quality of life is a spiritual indicator to some degree. It marks the soul progress in dealing with the obligations, responsibilities, and demands of living.
Everyone wants a happy, joyous, life but most are unaware they have huge obstacles in their path that were, in part, self-created from their own personal history and represent obstacles to advancement that must be reckoned with. And that is why problems arise, and life becomes a mixed blessing. The frustration and the misfortune in all this is how so often people, because the deep subconscious is not reachable by the conscious mind, will harbor many secrets. People will simply not understand themselves and why things are the way they are. It makes everything more difficult. It is bad enough to have an emotional impairment in your way, but to not understand why it is happening or what to do about it greatly compounds the injury. And that is the situation most people face. They see a divorce and the consequences in a very limited way in not recognizing the deep wounds that are often not only lifelong but intensify problems in new lifetimes.
Healing brought to bear for this young girl, whose demeanor and personality were compromised by living in a state of chronic anxiety and a kind of mourning, has been instrumental in lifting a veil. This lightening of her load has enabled her to truly come alive and relax enough to allow her true self to emerge from her shell that she put around herself as a kind of defense from reminders of her loss and the uncertainty it created about her status. This eroded her ability to trust in others and she became quite withdrawn and this was dragging her ever downward. Things have done a turnaround and she is on her way to truly blossoming, like a flower that is overdue but eventually shares its glorious potential. Having a karmic legacy of negativity is more the rule than the exception. How one deals with it means everything in whether a person advances or loses ground in the course of their lifetime.
It is especially important for the current generation to make the most of healing opportunities, given the stakes involved in humanity surviving as a species unless enough healing is done to allow an ascension to a higher plane of existence for all. Whenever we work to help a person in response to use of the Lightworker Healing Protocol or Deep Subconscious Mind Reset, we are also working on the bigger issue of saving and healing humanity. For one thing, all of the perpetrators who have contributed to the large storehouse of negativity on record, need healing as well and that is the ultimate measure of success, whether humanity can express enough love in a focused fashion to right the wrongs of history. We love describing these case study examples because each one is not only a small victory but part of a whole, in a tapestry of glorious change for the better that will stand for all of time.
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