A viewer asks: “Married couples often think, “If we just love each other more everything will work out.” Humanity, though, identifies specific sources of difficulties and solutions. Psychological approaches focus on personality traits, attachment styles, and emotional patterns. Sociological approaches focus on social structures, norms, and inequalities. Therapeutic approaches focus on communication, conflict resolution, and repair. Behavioral approaches focus on marriage as a set of changeable behaviors. Given the high levels of ignorance of the karmic causes of relationship troubles, and the weaknesses and variable effectiveness of the main approaches, how can “be more loving,” even the divine principles version, be enough?” What is Creator’s perspective?

The simplest way to explain this is that only with deep understanding and procedures capable of achieving a deep intervention for deep issues and deeper mechanistic insights, so one is working with things on a causal level and not simply downstream consequences and symptoms, will there be any hope for a true and lasting elevation and resolution of ongoing difficulties. People can fool themselves and others for a time, and often for a lengthy time, but that is not a life well-lived that will be more satisfying than having achieved full healing and perhaps an awakening to a higher spiritual vibration as a result. The effects from spiritual growth are much more profound than anything else that can be described in mere words as with reducing conflict, having a deeper understanding, more loving feelings, and so forth. Love is a vague term because it encompasses so much including the totality of everything. So, love on a small scale portioned out in increments, and perhaps emanating weakly from someone who has been compromised through trauma to be quite disconnected from their higher self and its support, will have a quite lesser quality and quantity of love energy to work with. So, two beings can be loving with their spouses but not suitable matches were they to swap partners, in providing something truly satisfying in a relationship. Here again, focusing on psychology, as currently practiced by care providers, will be a meager tool at best because it is devoid of spiritual awareness and concepts which are more important than anything else in a discussion of well-being, whether individual or shared in a relationship.