Nicola Staff asked 3 hours ago
The case study example we would like to describe for this outing is the plight of a young girl we will call Susie, as that is not her real name, but her dilemma is one faced by many children, both female and male, when in families with a caregiver who steps over the line and indulges their animal passions at the expense of the child and their innocence. So little Susie, young and innocent, was left in the care of a relative on a frequent basis because of parental commitments elsewhere, and that individual, unfortunately, was morally compromised through a kind of diminishment in his sensitivity to the needs of others and to the potential damage he could do by preying on an innocent child to satisfy his own needs. To a person of conscience, in divine alignment, it is almost unthinkable and impossible to understand how someone could betray their family's trust and subject a young girl to sexual abuse.
Like all children, she found this man's attentions confusing and somewhat alarming. She felt within she was being asked to do something unnatural that made her uncomfortable without truly knowing why. And while she liked this relative and trusted him because of his friendly and disarming nature, she found his advances unpleasant but wanted to please him and, at first, could not see actual harm underway. It was when he impressed on her that what they had done must be kept a secret from everyone that her conscience kicked in and made her feel extremely uncomfortable and conflicted. She was vulnerable because of her tender years, but also because she was often lonely and needed to feel secure, and the presence of a comforting, nurturing adult was often all that was available for her.
But over time, as this exploitation developed and then became a regular occurrence, she felt trapped in the middle and began to feel somehow this was her own fault. She was told many things by this adult manipulator intending to flatter her and groom her to be compliant and even appreciate his advances and his praise of her and what she meant to him. This made it very difficult for her to sort things out because she knew the living situation was vital for her daily care and her greatest fear was being alone, and this was reinforced by a deep inner fear of abandonment. That was awakened within her very early, even as an infant in her crib, often awakening and being alone and crying as infants do, but she had had prior lifetimes of being neglected as a child which led to severe adverse conditions and shortened her life.
There is a carryover of pain and suffering from life to life, because all goes on record during the lifetime, and any adversity that is not reckoned with, and healing provided for effectively, remains energetically on file and can be reawakened by the Law of Karma to revisit the person in a new incarnation and stir up inner emotions that begin to mimic the aftermath of prior trauma, even that occurring prelife. After all, pain is pain and bad feelings are bad feelings. This is a little-appreciated routine cause of much human suffering, which is often mislabeled and misunderstood, being assumed to represent a known life dilemma alone when, in fact, there could be a very deep reservoir of old pain being resurrected and piling on to the cares and worries of the current lifetime to make things worse.
The purpose is to get the individual's attention and provide motivation to seek help and healing. But, as you might well imagine, a young girl being exploited and taken advantage of is in no position to sort out the moral dilemma it might represent and appreciate the long-term implications, let alone have any awareness on a conscious level of where all of the mix of negative emotions is coming from and why. This, as well, will give a young child pause because their mind sees that, on its face, an overture of affection seems well-meaning, and the reassuring words and appreciative compliments and behavior of the manipulator do not seem to warrant the surge of negativity bubbling up emotionally from deep within.
Little Susie began feeling guilty as she grew to dislike this relative in finding his overtures unpleasant and somehow menacing despite his outward demeanor. She began to feel it was a failure within herself. This began adding fear and guilt into her experience, and that upped the ante, making each repeat encounter all the more unpleasant, painful, and of lingering consequence. At first she was able to push it out of her mind, but it became more and more something weighing on her mind and haunting her dreams, and often causing nightmares, adding to her misery. This became a theme for her in believing that if she could not make others happy, she did not deserve to be happy herself, and the inner conflict she felt with each close encounter with her would-be caregiver became more impactful. When this reached a level that became truly unbearable, she broke down in front of him and used the only leverage available to her, the fears that her parents would find out why she was so unhappy, because she didn't want to keep lying to them.
Fortunately, this perpetrator cared about his own safety and freedom enough to want to avoid potential criminal charges. He had been manipulated by dark spirit attachments to encourage his bad behavior and cloud his judgment about what it was possible for him to get away with—that, in his mind, he was bringing her pleasure as well, and a secret tryst could remain so and be mutually rewarding. So he reacted with surprise and shock at how severe her emotional reaction became and, fortunately, was not truly a criminal in his makeup, so he reasoned with her and begged her to keep quiet about the things that had happened and promised to not take advantage of her in the future. He was aided in gaining and maintaining the advantage by convincing her that to bring this out in the open would destroy the family and that neither one of them would be forgiven.
In a way, this made things worse. Although the physical intimacy and manipulations ceased, Susie was left with overwhelming guilt and shame, feeling humiliated and growing to believe she had betrayed her parents' love and trust in letting something like this happen behind their backs. The stern lectures she got from her manipulator were quite effective in crushing her ability to take any kind of action. This stunted her development. As she became increasingly shy and withdrawn, it made her afraid of boys, not trusting their motives, and having come to believe she was defective, in being a kind of attraction for a would-be manipulator, led to her suppressing her own inner nature and tying any such feelings to her self-judgment and loathing.
This history and the toll it took on her over time, through self-condemnation, made her bitter and withdrawn. So she was emotionally stunted and unable to blossom. She was one of those who faded into the background and were largely ignored. Fortunately, she became a part of the Divine Life Support recipients, being on a wish list of a subscriber who never knew the backstory about her and has no idea of the internal suffering she has endured for so many years, and the likelihood it would heavily constrain her for a lifetime, preventing joy and happiness.
What has been going on is a concerted healing effort to begin undoing the damage and to right the wrongs perpetrated by her manipulator and, even more importantly, her own self-denial and self-judgment. Such self-condemnation can be a more powerful weapon turned against the self than any outsider could do in causing a devastating loss of faith and self-acceptance. That is often a prelude to misery and a life of increasing agony, because people will not function at their best, and that can snowball and lead to a downward spiral of increasing separation from others, with loss of happiness and its possibility.
Little by little, the decks are being cleared and this has enabled her to become more sociable and finally to begin making friends. The first step in the recovery for such a victim, at such a young and vulnerable age, must entail regaining self-acceptance and a belief in the possibility of things being different. When people are so beaten down they cannot even envision happy things taking place, it can become a hopeless, irreversible decline. To reverse it takes some doing and considerable time in most cases, but this is what the divine can bring to bear, and is especially important in situations like this where people are harboring a dark past in secret. They will not seek the help of outsiders, even develop trust in a therapist to confide in, in many cases, because the shame and guilt are too great to face. The divine realm knows how to salvage lost souls in the making and that was the path this young girl was on. Growing into a young woman, she was heading to oblivion and would likely be unable to transition back to the heavenly realm on her passing, eventually, and then be lost in limbo along with countless others.
The gaining of strength and a more normal equilibrium is allowing her to see a better path and to begin taking at least baby steps forward, each time getting a strengthening and greater inner reassurance and wherewithal restored. That is the virtue of the Lightworker Healing Protocol and Deep Subconscious Mind Reset because they can work on basic inner beliefs to replace them with a positive counterpoint, and eventually accomplish what turns out to be a dramatic transformation. Even though done incrementally over a large span of time, a successful raising of the vibration provides what turns out to be a Soul Rescue and a return to good standing perceived by the self and accepted readily by others when that is on display and mirrored in the actions of a person who has finally been rehabilitated from a traumatic past. While still an ongoing work in progress, she has gained enough ground that the momentum is on her side now, and we see her only continuing to make gains from here, and count this as a successful turning point, rescuing her and her own future from a dark fate.
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